consciousness raising groups

In the 1960’s feminists argued that:

“…women were isolated from each other, and as a result many problems in women's lives were misunderstood as "personal," or as the results of conflicts between the personalities of individual men and women, rather than systematic forms of oppression. Raising consciousness meant helping oneself and helping others to become ‘politically conscious’. Consciousness raising groups aimed to get a better understanding of women's oppression by bringing women together to discuss and analyze their lives, without interference from the presence of men…

Well I want consciousness raising groups to rise again. This time I want to set then up for those who must live with the eternal death of a loved one because of murder. They call us survivors – they call us victims…we are both and neither. Our loved ones are the real victims and many of us barely survive. The organizations set up to help and the professionals who talk with us run from a script, one based on the idea that talking to a ‘professional’ will eventually bring us closure.

                                                                                                   

I’ve talked to the professional’s people and whilst I learnt a few things, talking to another survivor/victim of homicide has been the most important and enlightening engagement since Jordan’s murder. I feel understood, politicisised and somewhat energized – it’s still one-day-at-a-time…but it’s a bloody brilliant starting point.

I feel less isolated, far more understood and I believe we the victims of these most horrendous crimes can build communities of awareness and political clout. So taking from our feminist history - bring on the consciousness raising/support groups and the building of communities that actually can help heal, support and care.

If we continue sitting in rooms with a professional we continue to be isolated and all that happens is we learn to look after ourselves. This people, is not building communities and it is in supportive communities that awareness and growth can occur. In turn people become stronger. Stronger people can take on systems that have kept them isolated within the professional script.

So it’s time to use my skills and education to bring some of this change. God for the first time in months I feel revitalized.

So any support - ideas etc much appreciated.

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